12:10 < smcv> andrunko, oggis_: in PendingConnection, should the 
              ConnectionManager really be the parent of the resulting 
              Connection, btw?
12:10 < oggis_> no it shouldn't
12:10 < oggis_> definitely not
12:10 < oggis_> it should return a shared pointer to a connection with no 
                parent at all
12:10 < oggis_> parents and shared pointers generally don't mix
12:10 < oggis_> when a parent deletes its children, the shared pointers will 
                become dangling